Jan. 30, 2010 - Ted Kennedy by Edward Klein

Several events in Ted Kennedy's life seemed to prevent him from following in his brothers' footsteps and running for president - the Chappaquiddick incident, his defeat as Senate whip shortly thereafter and his son's battle with cancer. In 1972 and again in 1976, citing family responsibilities, he withdrew his candidacy. His wife was struggling with alcholism, his nephews (Bobby's sons) were in trouble with drugs and his children were having nightmares about their father being assassinated like their two uncles. But, in the end, perhaps this is the reason he was able to enjoy a much longer life than his brothers. Fate had prepared him for a much different future.

Ted Kennedy is now buried in Arlington cemetery, reunited once again with his brothers, none of whom will be forgotten. Like Lincoln and Washington, the Kennedy dynasty will always be a part of American history.

Jan. 29, 2010 - The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

March's chapter is about work, an area that I can definitely use some help with. I tend to be a perfectionist and therefore, work excessively in pursuit of the ideal product. I have little time or energy left once I get home from school. I also have a difficult time saying no to opportunities that arise, then find I am overwhelmed with responsibilities.  I hope that this chapter can help me with some of these problems.

My daughter made an interesting comment today as we were driving to the mall. We were discussing a violinist we had heard the night before and were comparing him to James Ehnes, whose near-perfect technique and attention to detail makes him one of my favourites.  She made the comment, "Why does perfection exist when no one can achieve it?" This made me realize that the unrealistic goal of perfection I have in my mind is a myth. No wonder the saying "Nobody's perfect" is so popular. It's true. Although I still believe that high quality work and a strong work ethic are extremely important, letting go of the quest for perfection and following Gretchen's goal of "enjoy now" would take away the self-imposed pressure to be perfect.

Jan. 28, 2010 - The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

February's chapter entitled "Remember Love" tackles the subject of marriage. After twenty-two years together and the stress of kids and jobs, whose marriage couldn't use a little boost? I can readily connect to the areas of focus chosen by the author - she really understands the "ins and outs" of relationships. Her personal goals were to: quit nagging, don't expect praise or appreciation, fight right, no dumping, and give proofs of love.

I am interested to find out what the object of some of these goals is, especially the less obvious titles. However, three of them hit home immediately. To be honest, I find that my husband does more nagging than I do, but it certainly is an area everyone can improve on and that includes nagging not only our spouse but our children as well. As far as expecting praise or appreciation, after so many years together it is nice when you get it, but it is certainly not expected. The third area, give proofs of love, made me remember the many times my husband has done thoughtful things for me that went unnoticed. For example, just yesterday as I was running to a workshop, he made me a cup of tea to take with me and I hadn't even asked. If actions speak louder than words, then these little "proofs of love" are just as important as a verbal "I love you".

Jan. 27, 2010 - The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

"January - Boost Energy: Vitality. February - Remember Love: Marriage. March - Aim Higher: Work." So begins the challenge to increase happiness. Each month, a different goal is the focus. I like the way the author starts with an action - two simple words or a phrase starting with a verb to represent what needs to be achieved.

As the January chapter begins, a list of specific goals clarifies the areas of focus. This month the author tried to go to sleep earlier; exercise better; toss, restore and organize; tackle a nagging task; and, act more energetic. The chapter then chronicles the thinking behind each goal and the measures taken to meet it including successes and triumphs along the way.

I think a project such as this is a great way to make changes in one's life. By formalizing the process and committing oneself to systematically tackling the areas of concern, a certain dedication arises. This year, I have chosen to blog about a book I am reading each day. My 365 days of reading project helps me to connect with my students weekly reading response journal assignment, as well as encouraging me to read and write each day. I love to read and therefore, it is a commitment that I am invested in.

I can also relate to many of the specific measures the author has taken this month to improve happiness. For the last few years I have also attempted to declutter and organize my home in order to find peace. It is a continuous process. Exercising better is successful to varying degrees but a new elliptical in the basement may help to achieve this health goal.

Nevertheless, I was inspired to take just one of the author's January goals as a focus for myself. I chose going to sleep earlier. I find that I enjoy staying up late when the house is quiet and everyone else has gone to bed but this translates into being tired the next day and feeling behind from the beginning. It becomes a cycle that is difficult to break. However, after a few nights of good sleep, I am already feeling more energetic and happier overall. Now, I need to make this a habit and stick to it. It takes 21 days to make a habit - just 18 more days to go!

Jan. 26, 2010 - Ted Kennedy, The Dream That Never Died by Edward Klein

What was it like to be the youngest of nine children in a large Irish Catholic family? The beginning of this biography delves into the background of the Kennedy clan and offers some insights into the actions and behaviour of this "royal" American family. Springing from political roots, Ted's grandfather, John Francis "Honey Fitz" Fitzgerald, was once mayor of Boston and his father Joseph P. Kennedy was an ambassador to Great Britain in the years before World War II. Joe expected much of his children and even at age 72, was the driving force behind John F. Kennedy's campaign for the presidency.

It was interesting to learn that Ted was a bit of a troublemaker in school. His father was always admonishing him about the quality of his handwriting and spelling. During his college years at Harvard, he was expelled for cheating when he hired someone to write his Spanish final for him. Ted had to take time away before being accepted back, joining the army as a private first class in the military police in Europe. In later life, it was noted that Ted found it difficult to put a sentence together. Was this due to his excessive drinking? The death of 3 of his siblings certainly had a profound effect on the family and on Ted in particular. As the youngest, it was Ted who watched his parents deal with the tragic deaths of Joe Jr. and Kathleen, both in plane accidents. His sister Rosemary left the family when she was institutionalized after a failed lobotomy.

All of these events contributed to shaping Ted's character. Although much different from his other brothers, Ted was "a tribune of the powerless, the persecuted, and the downtrodden" throughout his long career in politics.

Jan. 25, 2010 - Ted Kennedy, The Dream That Never Died by Edward Klein

Author of many bestsellers about the Kennedy family including The Kennedy Curse and Just Jackie, Edward Klein features Senator Edward (Ted) Kennedy in this new biography. Even though more than 40 years have passed since the assassinations of John F. Kennedy and Robert Kennedy, the attention surrounding the Kennedy family continues unabated. Just today at the bookstore I also noticed a new autobiography by Ted Kennedy among a display on memoirs.

Instead of focussing solely on the difficult moments in his life, this biography relates the highlights of a career that spanned half a century. During this time, Senator Kennedy was involved in almost every major piece of legislation from health care to education to civil rights. Despite struggling with cancer at the end of his life, he helped support Obama in his race to the presidency. He was always there for his extended family, particularly supporting Caroline Kennedy, walking her down the aisle at her wedding and making the funeral arrangements for her brother after the tragic plane crash.

There is definitely more than meets the eye to this beloved politician and I hope to learn more about him as I continue reading this biography.

Jan. 24, 2010 - The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin

Who wouldn't find this title appealing? Many of us, especially when we reach our 40's, start questioning what we're doing with our lives. We become so busy with our jobs and our day-to-day routines, that we don't take the time to enjoy our existence. Later, we may regret not spending more time with our children, not taking the time for a family vacation, or going out for dinner with friends. I read somewhere that we all have 24 hours in a day but it is what we choose to do with that time that makes a difference.

The author, Gretchen Rubin, who is also a blogger, realized one day as she was taking the bus, that she needed to make changes in her life. "The days are long but the years are short," she thought. This book chronicles what she did to find happiness and peace. Or as the subtitle states, "Why I Spent a Year Trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean My Closets, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun."

I am excited to read about her "happiness project" as an inspiration for myself to "shake things up a bit". I have a wonderful family, a great home and amazing friends that I need to appreciate and enjoy more. Prioritizing what makes me happy and eliminating activities that are stressful but not essential will go a long way in helping me achieve my goals. And, I must learn one simple word - NO.

Jan. 23, 2010 - We Generation by Michael Ungar, PH.D.

The term "We" Generation is one that is heard quite often these days. The term is used by the organization Free the Children in their Me to We Day campaign to raise awareness for child poverty amongst today's youth. The premise is that in order to raise "socially responsible kids", parents must help children shift their focus from the child to the world at large - from "me" to "we".

The new technologies of the Web 2.0 actually support this idea as they are collaborative in nature. Children can now communicate with others around the world quite easily. Blogs, wikis, video sharing sites, facebook and other applications, when used responsibly, provide many benefits. However, it is up to parents and educators to help students learn to use these tools appropriately.

The book also includes general advice for parents in connecting with their children. The author is an advocate of physical contact like hugging your children as part of this connection process. In a world of trepidation due to abuse, this is a difficult concept to understand. However, I know that babies in orphanages develop differently due to the lack of contact in their early lives compared to babies who are held often by their mothers. In fact, I have seen advertisements on the internet for "cuddlers" for these babies.

There is also a lot of common sense advice on topics such as nurturing responsibility, expecting the best from our kids and punishment vs. discipline. As a teacher, I didn't find anything new or surprising here but then again, I've been trained in dealing with children, particularly adolescents, having taught Gr. 7 and 8 for the past 18 years.

I think this topic is very important for today's youth. We have so many advantages, especially in our privileged communities. Reaching out to others in need helps children appreciate what they have, helps them feel good about themselves, develops their character and inspires others to do the same. As adults, we can certainly take a lesson from this!

Jan. 22, 2010 - Last Night I Dreamed of Peace, the Diary of Dang Thuy Tram

This diary is the account of Dang Thuy Tram, a young, 24-year-old doctor, working with the National Liberation Front at a battlefield hospital during the war in Vietnam. Written between the years of 1968 to 1970, it details the dangers and hardships of the war from first-hand experience. The diary is filled with Dang Thuy Tram's thoughts and feelings as she works to save the lives of the wounded while also worrying about her own family. Although a translation, the insights she shares in her diary are nevertheless touching and enduring.

As stated in the introduction, "Dr. Tram wrote her diaries under extreme duress...in battle trenches, bomb shelters, and triages, and in wards filled with dying patients. Through destruction, hunger, extreme fatigue, loneliness, and psychological trauma, this remarkable young woman still had the presence to reach for the literary and the sublime."

Eventually, this young woman's dream of peace and independence was realized, but not during her short lifetime. She died in 1970, gunned down by an American platoon as she walked along a jungle trail. Her most heartfelt wish to be reunited with her family was never realized.

Jan. 21, 2010 - New York by Edward Rutherfurd

I feel as though I have just lived through 350 years of history as I finish reading this book. What a journey it has been! Each new era introduced new members of the core families, dealing with events in their time period. Rutherfurd is truly a master in developing realistic characters who we can connect to and care about, then placing them directly in situations where they will meet important figures in historical settings. Each time a new family was introduced, I was immediately invested in the outcome of their lives, especially knowing what might occur given my background knowledge of history. I found myself rooting for William Master as the Great Depression hit the stock markets, knowing that he would probably lose everything; for Sarah Adler to survive the events of 9/11 knowing that many lost their lives in this tragedy.

Historically, not all major events were included in the novel. For example, the Second World War was entirely glossed over with only a very limited mention of any events related to the conflict. The Korean war was mentioned briefly but not dealt with in any significant way. Why did Rutherfurd choose to cover certain events in so much detail but leave others out?

I think it is because he wanted to deal with those events that made an impact directly on the city of New York, rather than choosing global events. After all, this was the story of "The Big Apple". So although I would have liked to learn more about the Civil War and the fight for freedom from slavery, I understand this would have digressed from the topic at hand and caused the novel to be cumbersome and too wide in scope.

The acknowledgments at the end of the novel speak to the detailed research undertaken in the writing of the book. Many experts and resources were consulted, manuscripts revised and historians interviewed. This, combined with an intoxicating narrative, have made reading New York a remarkably engaging experience.

Jan. 20, 2010 - New York by Edward Rutherfurd

Every time a name or event is mentioned in this novel, I wonder if it is fact or fiction. Certainly, the main characters, the Master family, are fictitious. However, the people they come in contact with or the events they live through definitely seem to be historically based.

The Dred Scott decision is something I hadn't heard of before. Dred Scott was a slave and what happened to him set American slaves back many years, caused further division between the North and South and spurred the Civil War. Peter Cooper is mentioned as having built America's first railroad steam engine, then funding the Cooper Institute to provide free night classes for men who worked and day classes for women. The Lincoln-Douglas debates of 1858 are mentioned in a discussion between Hetty and Frank, as they wait to hear the featured speaker at the Cooper Institute, Lincoln.  When he enters to begin his speech, the description provided matches the image I have of him. "walking stiffly and somewhat stooped at the shoulders came a very tall, thin, dark-haired man. The lines in Lincoln's clean-shaven face were so deep that they were like chasms. From under his shaggy eyebrows, his gray eyes surveyed the crowd gravely..." What suprised me in his description was his voice - "...so high, so harsh and so unpleasing that it grated upon the ear and made the hearer wish he'd stop." How could this be? A president would be a good speaker and have a strong voice. Sure enough, research confirms his description - even his voice is accurately described.

I am finding New York to be a well-researched, interesting novel and can't wait to learn more about the issue of slavery as the story progresses.

Jan. 19, 2010 - Homemaker's Magazine, February/March

The February/March edition of this magazine is loaded with great recipes. My mouth was watering as I quickly skimmed through page after page of tantalizing dishes. From main meals to salads to desserts, the variety is appealing.

One set of recipes is centred around the theme of lemons which is touted as "a safe way to boost flavour withour salt." The suggestion to top boiled broccoli with lemon, olive oil and garlic is reminiscent of the typical Greek preparation of cooked vegetables. In fact, lemon is a key ingredient in much of the Greek cuisine. What would "avgolemono" soup be without the lemon? Greek roast potatoes are also doused in a sauce mixed with lemon. Being a fish lover, the Poached Fish with Lemon Sauce recipe caught my eye. Other choices include Lemon Pepper Turkey Scallopini with Mushrooms, Lemon Braised Artichokes, Lemon Chicken with Cucumber and Honey Lemon Frozen Yogurt for dessert.

In the section "Not Just Another Sandwich" various types of bread are explored to spice up this typical North American offering. Recipes for the breads and the sandwich fillers are included. The suggestions here are a wonderful way to take humdrum ham or boring bologna to the next level.

And, where would we be without our "comfort foods"? Homemaker's magazine explores diet-friendly versions of some all-time favourite meals such as Garlicky Baked Crispy Chicken, Caesar-ish Salad and Fettucini with Zucchini and Ricotta.

"Start off light" offers appetizer suggestions for a special dinner beginning with Mussels with Fennel, Ginger-Cured Salmon and Shrimp and Vegetable Spring Rolls with Nori. This is topped off with a selection on "Ravishing Reds" - wines that is. Not being a great wine connoisseur, I appreciate some advice in this area.

Ready for a feast? I was ravenous after perusing this magazine but inspired to attempt some of these amazing dishes.

Jan. 18, 2010 - New York by Edward Rutherfurd

Hetta Master is the wife of the main character Frank in the 1853 section of this novel. When Frank meets Hetta at the corner of Fifth Avenue and Fortieth Street she is "standing there like a statue, under her parasol, reading." What book has her so engrossed? The controversial "Uncle Tom's Cabin" by Harriet Beecher Stowe. The revolutionary ideas proposed here, inspired the movement to free blacks from slavery. However, Frank doesn't see this as a good thing. He claims that the book "had been like a plague in his house for nearly a week now. A plague to the whole country as far as he could see."

The discussion that follows between these two characters gives insight into how people around the world were probably feeling during this time. Hetty claims that it is really a Christian Book - "A challenge to all Christians. How can we countenance such an evil in our land?" Interesting words given some of the other disturbing events in world history that have now occurred such as The Holocaust and the Rwandan genocide.

Charles Dickens is also mentioned here, his books more widely accepted and popular at this time.  It reminds me of the Harry Potter or Twilight craze teenagers are experiencing in the 21st century. Like J.K. Rowling, this British author "had come over from London to begin his triumphal tour of America." Hetta says that she "loves his characters and stories and his plea for social justice is beyond all praise."

Hetta's choice of reading material shines a light on her character. She truly feels empathy for the less fortunate and has a high moral conscience. This includes giving her husband a hard time about shipping cotton which is still fueling the slave trade.

Reading Edward Rutherfurd's New York provides a true immersion experience into the world of the mid-19th century.

Jan. 17, 2010 - New York by Edward Rutherfurd

What I love about Edward Rutherfurd's writing is how seamlessly he incorporates authentic historical figures and events into the storyline. It is now 1853 and New York has become a melting pot of different cultures such as Irish, Jewish, German and Dutch. The economy is beginning to improve with new technology brought on by the invention of steam power. We are in the thick of the Industrial Revolution which began in Great Britain and spread throughout Europe and North America.

Frank Master and his wife visit "The Crystal Palace at 40th Street" which has been modelled after the palace built for the Great Exhibition in Great Britain in 1851. This is a real building and event as is the New York palace which was built in 1853 for "The Exhibition of the Industry of All Nations". That is exactly what Frank and Hetta see - scientific instruments, guns, water pumps, ice-cream makers, equipment for taking photographs or sending telegrams and many other types of machinery. Seeing these inventions through the eyes of people living in this era is so exciting. I feel like I am there with them, awed by the progress of industry. This is certainly reminiscent of our current circumstances with the explosion of the internet, social networking, the Web 2.0 and many other amazing technologies.

As Frank and his wife discuss his shipping business, the author inserts information about steam-powered vessels on the Hudson River - the same river where a plane made an emergency landing recently. The Cunard family, a well-known cruise ship company today, was the first to successfully run steamships across the Atlantic. The Cunard's rival, Cornelius Vanderbilt, depicted as a "tough as nails" commodore who no one wants to mess with, is also a true historical figure.

It is this backdrop of history that comes alive through Rutherfurd's narrative, helping the reader experience the sights, sounds and excitement of this important period in world history.

Jan. 16, 2010 - The Legend of Sigurd and Gudrún by J. R. R. Tolkien

J.R.R. Tolkien was a literary genius who passed away before all of his works were published. His son, Christopher Tolkien, appointed the executor of his father's literary works, has been editing his manuscripts and has published another portion of the many legends and stories of Middle Earth in his father's collection.

This particular book is a set of two related poems, The New Lay of the Volsüngs and The New Lay of Gudrún. It begins with a foreword and an introduction by Christopher Tolkien to set the background for these legends. He also explains the "verse-form of short stanzas" that characterize the poems in order to help the reader understand their structure. Given the unusual format, I think this is a good idea. Each of the poems is followed by a commentary and there is also an Appendix at the end of the book. As far as the story, the hero Sigurd, slayer of an infamous dragon, is the protagonist of the first poem. The second poem deals with Gudrun's despair after her brother is killed by his own blood-brothers. She is forced to marry Atli, ruler of the Huns.

J.R.R. Tolkien's legend embodies the ancient style of the "Poetic Edda" of Norway and Iceland. Although I appreciate his genius in incorporating these ancient languages and styles, I found it difficult to sustain interest in the plot while reading the story in short lines and stanzas. A sustained effort and study of each stanza is necessary to decipher the meaning. However, the fluency and rhythm of each line does have its own beauty when read aloud. Like Shakespeare, an in-depth analysis of these works would definitely help the reader appreciate their beauty.

Jan. 15, 2010 - The White Queen by Philippa Gregory

Before the Tudors reigned the Plantagenets. This royal family had its share of rivalries, affairs and intrigue including the infamous mystery surrounding the two young princes in the Tower of London. The battle between the houses of York and Lancaster is the backdrop for this story of Elizabeth Woodville, otherwise known as The White Queen.

The author, Philippa Gregory, is not only a great storyteller but a trained historian with an interest in English history especially the Tudor period. Her unique perspective based on historically accurate details makes for an intriguing reflection into the time period. Written from the point of view of Elizabeth of Woodville, the novel traces her life through the years of 1464 to 1485. Her joys and struggles through marriage and children are chronicled in diary format, including letters to and from others.

Historical fiction is one of my favourite genres of writing as I enjoy learning about the people and society of other time periods. I wonder what aspects of today's royal family of England will go down in history for future generations to read?

Jan. 14, 2010 - The Other Queen by Philippa Gregory

The Tudor dynasty of England and the Elizabethan era which followed are among the most intriguing and exciting in English history. Who hasn't heard of King Henry VIII and his six wives, two of whom were beheaded by their husband for treason? His reign is even the basis of the popular series The Tudors.

Philippa Gregory has based many of her books such as The Other Boleyn Girl, The Queen's Fool, The Boleyn Inheritance, and The Virgin's Lover on the infamous protagonists of sixteenth century England. This particular novel tells the story of the flight and captivity of Mary Queen of Scots. Her story is told through three different points of view - her own, her captor's Bess of Hardwick and Bess's last husband, George Talbot, The Earl of Shrewsbury, who was said to have fallen in love with Queen Mary. This triangle enables the author to recount the story from three differing perspectives with contrasting intentions. We can empathize with each one of the characters in turn as puppets in the political plans of the English. The religious turmoil between the Protestants and Catholics as well as the question of the succession were guiding factors in the actions of many of Queen Elizabeth's advisors. It is no wonder that Mary posed such a threat and in the end was beheaded.

As history shows, Mary Queen of Scots was still a force to be reckoned with. Her son, King James VI of Scotland succeeded Elizabeth after her death in 1603 to become King James I of the Stuart dynasty.

Jan. 13, 2010 - Prairie Tale by Melissa Gilbert

Reading a memoir about someone I grew up watching on one of my favourite television series brought back many good memories of the past. I remember our whole family looking forward to the night that Little House on the Prairie was on TV. In those pre-VCR days, we had to plan ahead to have our homework done so that we had the time to watch the show. We would make popcorn and then sit as a family in the living room. laughing at the antics of Laura, Mary and Nellie as well as Mr. and Mrs. Oleson and the rest of the Walnut Grove gang. Of course, each episode also brought tears, as there were many tragedies, triumphs and moments of sheer happiness. When new episodes weren't on, we were happy to watch reruns. Who didn't want a mother and father like the Ingalls parents? They were loving and understanding, always knowing how to solve a problem. Ma and Pa always had the best advice!

However, one can't believe everything one sees on television. The idyllic family portrayed was less than perfect. Reading this memoir shattered any illusions I had. Pa, Michael Landon, was larger than life and wonderful to work for but he smoked and drank constantly on the set. He carried around a coffee cup of vodka on the set. Mary and Laura didn't get along (the "b....." word was mentioned) while Laura and Nellie were best friends. Relationships came and went for many with Michael Landon leaving his wife for another woman. Shortly after this, the show changed focus and was eventually cancelled. The celebrities, the money, the drinking and drugs that resulted for many actors is revealed through personal anecdotes.

Melissa was engaged to Rob Lowe and hung around the "brat pack" of the 80's - Tom Cruise, Demi Moore, Emilio Estevez, and others. She had a drug and alchohol addiction and was involved in a slew of relationships before meeting her husband and soulmate, Bruce Boxleitner. I couldn't believe how many famous people she knew and worked with on numerous projects. It seemed she was constantly working on something. The celebrity lifestyle depicted is surreal - it's hard to imagine spending money, partying, travelling constantly, and behaving the way these actors did.

Despite some shocking revelations, I felt an instant connection to this memoir because of the great memories I had of "Little House on the Prairie". My own children now enjoy Laura Ingalls wonderful family both in books and on the television series.

Jan. 12, 2010 - The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold

From the outset, this highly disturbing book was entrancing.  A young girl is brutally murdered by a neighbour, her body dissected and carried away in a bag while her parents wait for her to return from school, worried when she is late. Written from her own point of view, Susie Salmon, the murdered girl, experiences her rape and murder, then proceeds to watch her family members cope with her death. She is able to watch her relatives, friends and neighbours attempt to carry on with their lives as well as the man who murdered her although she cannot intervene. As her family crumbles, she is powerless to prevent the problems that arise from their grief.

There have been many novels written about serial killers or murders but I found the point of view in this story quite unique. Susie's perspective of the world from her place in heaven is full of powerful images and observations that would be difficult to describe by a narrator or family member. This enables the author to cast a bird's eye view of the cast of characters involved in the plot and thus give us deeper insight into their thoughts and feelings.

There were times, however, where it was difficult to infer the circumstances described or the comments made by the characters and the resolution I was hoping for in the end never came to fruition. An unrealistic twist in the final chapters seemed to patronize the reader rather than resolve any issues or create a euphoric aftermath of a story with all the loose ends neatly tied together.

In any case, The Lovely Bones is an interesting and thought-provoking novel that I'm sure will be electrifying to watch as a movie.

Jan. 11, 2010 - The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold

Written from the point of view of a murdered child, this disturbing story is now the basis for a new movie release. It has always been common for the movie industry to transform popular books into powerful dramatizations. Perhaps, the producers believe in best-selling books as a hook to bring fans into the theatre. Although the visual appeal of a movie and the special effects that may add to the story impact the viewer, the descriptive detail, the emotions and interactions of the characters and some of the literary devices that set the tone or theme may be difficult to incorporate. Many books have been successfully transposed into movies which are an equally appealing experience, although for different reasons.


The difficulty I have as a reader is in reading a book after having seen the movie. I find that this gives me a bias rather than allowing me to make my own observations and conclusions. I enjoy visualizing the characters and situations in my own way rather than how the producer sees them. Once having seen the movie, it is extremely difficult to picture the characters any other way. Additionally, the suspense in following an intriguing plot and in predicting the outcome is lost having seen a movie first. For these reasons, it is more enjoyable for me to read the book first, then see the movie. I am able to compare and discuss the two experiences afterwards in a way that would be impossible in a reverse situation.

Jan. 10, 2010 - Prairie Tale by Melissa Gilbert

Another book about a child actress is the memoir of Melissa Gilbert, the beloved Laura or "half-pint" from the drama "Little House on the Prairie".  Growing up watching the antics of Laura and Mary, living a simple but sometimes difficult life on the prairie surrounded by a loving, understanding family and a close-knit, supportive community, it seemed that Laura had the perfect life.

However, this memoir reveals that like Jodie Sweetin, Melissa's life was less than idyllic. Both Jodie and Melissa, adopted into their families and playing characters on a popular TV show, struggled to find their true identities. Substance abuse and unhealthy relationships followed.

The other Melissa on set who played Laura's sister Mary didn't really get along well with her on-screen sibling but nasty Nellie Olsen, Alison Arngrim, and Melissa Gilbert really hit it off.  That was interesting to read after all the years of watching the animosity between Nellie and Laura. It's so easy to believe that what you see on the movies is real when in fact that is never the case. I can see why both of these young actresses and others child stars have had so much difficulty having a normal life.

Jan. 9, 2010 - Focal Point by Brian Tracy

Although this book primarily relates to the business world, two sections that I found universally applicable were "Your Habits Determine Your Destiny" and "Whatever You Concentrate On Grows".

Habits are easily formed, especially bad ones, but it takes much hard work and effort to develop and maintain good habits. Research (by Dr. Maxwell Maltz) has shown that it takes 21 successive days to develop a good habit; but, that habit can be destroyed with one or two quick relapses. Therefore, it may take extreme discipline and energy to develop good habits. The quote by Goethe mentioned here, "Everything is hard before it is easy" is certainly relevant. The author also states that, "good habits are hard to develop but easy to live with; bad habits are easy to develop but hard to live with." I think that one of the most important factors for success is having the discipline and work ethic needed to support the development of these good habits. It is difficult to do something, but easy to do nothing.

In the next section, the author uses an experiment on factory workers to prove the point that, "Wherever your attention goes, your heart goes also." In 1928, researchers selected a group of women who assembled motors on a production line to be the focus of an experiment. They told the women about the project and then proceeded to modify elements of their work environment - more lighting, less lighting, higher temperatures, lower temperatures, and other working conditions. Interestingly, each time an element was modified, whether positive or negative, production levels rose. The researchers were mystified. How could that be? At this point, they met with a focus group who revealed that the simple fact that the researchers had taken an interest in the workers had caused levels of self-esteem and confidence to rise. Since the workers felt better about themselves, they worked harder.

This made me think of students in my classroom and teachers at my school. When a teacher is attentive with their students, circulating among them as they work, answering questions and guiding their research, inspiring them to reach their potential, students achieve better results. Similarly, teachers who work for administrators who support them, listen to their ideas, and include them in important decisions also work more effectively. Happy teacher, happy students. I remember when my children were young, each time I turned my attention away from them to answer the phone, invariably a disagreement or problem would arise. This continues to be the case even now that they are teenagers.

I enjoy reading books such as Focal Point, because even though much of what is written is common sense or advice I've heard before, it is always motivational to hear it again, perhaps from a slightly different point of view that may reveal some points to ponder.

Jan. 8, 2010 - Un'sweetin'ed by Jodie Sweetin

Memoirs seem to be the new fashion in reading. After a trip to the library, the other day, I came home with a few different choices. This particular memoir is by Jodie Sweetin, who played Stephanie Tanner on the popular '80's sitcom, Full House. This is the type of wholesome, family show that, years later, my own children watched as they were growing up in the late '90's.

Many people would covet the life of a television star. The money, the attention, the clothes; working with and meeting other famous actors, traveling on location to Hawaii and Disney World - what's not to like? However, "all that glitters is not gold". Jodie reveals, that although there were good times, she missed having a normal childhood including school and proper friendships. The kids at school made fun of her and shunned her. Even the most embarassing moments of growing to adulthood had to be experienced in front of millions of television viewers. She struggled to find her place not only on the set but also at school, in front of her peers.

The fans were often outrageous, screaming at her and calling her names, trying to get autographs even under the stalls of washrooms. As the show became more and more popular, the crowds were often uncontrollable. Jodie had to have a bodyguard; she even recounts a time when the whole cast was shot at in a limousine. This is not an environment we would wish for ourselves or our children. For Jodi, it eventually led to poor self-esteem and addiction problems.

In her memoir, Jodie reveals her struggle with alcoholism and addiction. I liked the fact that in her introduction she mentioned that her story was not meant to stop people from drinking or doing drugs or to give them advice. "I know from experience that being told not to do something is not going to make a damn bit of good. It doesn't do any good when you're told by your family, let alone some actress." However, it is a story people can learn from, that will hopefully make an impact on the choices they may be faced with and the daily peer pressure and social pressures that they experience. Above all, her story helps us realize how fortunate we really are in our own lives and that money and possessions do not ensure happiness or success.

Jan. 7, 2010 - Genevieve, Small Dog, Big Life by Dr. Dennis Fried

Subtitled, Memoirs of a Furry Genius, with a picture of an adorable "papillon" puppy using a typewriter on the cover, a quick perusal of this book reveals a hilarious account of the life of a smart dog. "Books about dogs are a dime a dozen...since these books are written by humans, dogs know that they are completely ridiculous. What the world...has needed...is a book about humans written by a dog." So begins the foreword of this unusual memoir.

There are twenty chapters, each beginning with a charming picture of Genevieve in a captivating, irresistible pose and the chapter title which reveals the topic. In chapters such as The Hidden Toy Ploy, Dog and Driver, Pet Peeves, Picking the Right Human for You and Do Humans Think, the tables are cleverly turned to reflect a canine point of view of life in a human world, highlighting the relationships of dogs and people. The author's ironic wit paired with "cute doggie pix" and heartwarming stories is sure to be a winning combination.

Jan. 6, 2010 - How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie

"Everything old is new again." This book, written in 1948 is perhaps even more timely today than when it was first published. In a revolving-door society of endless commitments, exhausting workdays  and overwhelming family schedules, the message of living in the present is more important than ever.

Already, within the opening pages, the quotes chosen by the author have made an impact on me. I have been attempting to slow down the pace of my hectic life, to take on fewer commitments and instead to enjoy the everyday moments with my family. "This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it." From the early times of the Bible, mankind has been inspired with messages such as this.  People need daily reminders and frequent inspiration to remember these simple but essential truths. "Every day is a new life to a wise man."

I am hoping this book will assist me in ridding myself of the constant worry of tasks to accomplish, children to raise and a future to secure. With Dale Carnegie's insightful words, the year 2010 should be a year of peace and prosperity for my whole family.

Jan. 5, 2010 - Digital Citizenship in Schools by Gerald Bailey and Mike Ribble

With technology evolving rapidly and students immersed in social media, digital citizenship has become one of the newest catch-phrases and concerns for our youth. The meaning of the term is still elusive to many educators and parents alike. That's where this book comes in and it couldn't have been written at a better time.

Beginning with a straightforward explanation of the term "digital citizenship" and why it is an important topic in today's world, the authors highlight nine important elements including access, commerce, communication, literacy, etiquette, law, rights and responsibilites, health and wellness, and security. After a thorough explanation and discussion of these elements and how they pertain to the use of technology, the authors provide plans, activities, guided lessons, models, demonstrations and rubrics for teachers to use in educating their students to become responsible users of technology. From cyberbullying, to cell phone use, to digital addiction and plagiarism, the topics covered are relevant to numerous situations that are visible in society due to the accessibility and transparency of digital resources and identities.

Our world is expanding and shrinking at the same time due to the technologies available to us. It is evident that we must all make an effort to understand this new environment with its laws and implications in order to cope as citizens of a much different world than we have experienced in the past.

Jan. 4, 2010 - New York by Edward Rutherfurd

Just when I was beginning to become invested in the lives of the characters involved in the American Revolution section of the book, a new century has begun, leaving many issues unresolved. From 1781  and then 1790, the author jumps to 1825. The war is barely over and few details have been given about its resolution. Weston is now a father of five children, all girls, except for Frank, who is the main character of the next time period.

Over two hundred pages have been spent with the family of John Master which is a significant portion of the book so far. Therefore, it's difficult to avoid feeling a connection to this family and to the events of the American Revolution. This being only the beginning of the second of four centuries included in the novel, the author must move along in order to fit everything in. I am surprised that so much time has been spent on one event, although it was a major one for the United States. I am sure its ramifications will be felt well into the following chapters.

Having just recently read Diana Gabaldon's newest book, An Echo in the Bone, I found many similarities between events and characters depicted in both novels. This and the fact that the historical figures (George Washington, Benedict Arnold, Thomas Jefferson, et al) are so renowned, allows the reader to connect to and understand the story on a different level.

I can't help but feeling incomplete and unsettled about the outcome of the war, but I am sure the events of the next century will be equally engaging.

Jan. 3, 2010 - Kanata by Don Gillmor

Since I'm currently reading about American history, it's only fair that I also choose a book about Canadian history. This novel, written by the author of Canada: A People's History, is written from the point of view of the main character, the country of Canada, seen through the eyes of explorer David Thomson.

At first glance, I am not sure I am going to enjoy the disjointed writing style. The author shifts back and forth through time, sometimes arbitrarily, even in the middle of chapters. This makes it difficult to determine the setting or time period. Historical events and characters, rather than being cleverly wrapped into the plot, are thrown into the mix without purpose, often in a stream of dates, names and places.

Reviews for this book suggest it is "the Great Canadian novel" and "an epic story". I hope that my first observations will be unfounded. Canada's history is indeed rich and interesting despite our being a young country. Hopefully, a great historical fiction novel will help readers to realize this.

Jan. 2, 2010 - New York by Edward Rutherfurd

The year is 1776 and the Masters family is in the middle of the American Revolution. James Master has returned from England with his son, Weston, estranged from his wife who calls him a "colonial" and wants nothing to do with him or his family. His father, John Master, is a Loyalist, on the British side. He believes that a compromise between England and the Americans is possible. However, his son James, has surprised him by being on the other side - he is a Patriot.

This juxtaposition of two different ideologies within one family provides an interesting background upon which to paint the events of the War of Independence. The reader is forced to experience this intense struggle for independence through a divided but still loving family who must work together to ensure everyone's safety. The characters and events are all familiar to us - General Washington, Ben Franklin, John and Samuel Adams, Benedict Arnold, General Cornwallis, King George III and many others. Events such as the Boston Tea Party, Washington crossing the Delaware and the battles at Saratoga and Yorktown are depicted through the eyes of both James Master, experiencing many hardships with the revolutionary army and Loyalist Grey Albion, a friend from England who is in love with James' younger sister, Abigail.

As a reader, it is difficult not to empathize with both sides, especially because of our emotional involvement with the characters. The tumultuous events of the war may lead to a potentially disastrous outcome despite who wins. I found myself rooting for both James to be reunited without harm with his family and Grey Albion who wants to marry his sister if he survives.

Family against family, brother against brother, friend against friend, the Revolutionary War gained the Americans their independence, but at a cost to many great citizens.

Jan. 1, 2010 - New York by Edward Rutherfurd

The year is 1759 and the Masters family, John, Mercy and their son James, are in London, England. They have travelled here to meet the members of the Albion firm, the new trading house through which their London business is being shipped.

At first, the whole family is enjoying the hospitality of the English and the opportunities for cultural and social activities. Even their son James seems to be in his element and he is highly considering staying in England to study at Oxford. However, it is the mother, Mercy, who becomes quite uncomfortable with the English way of life. When she sees people living in palaces and the king with an openly accepted mistress, she sees London as a world of "aristocratic excess and immorality", which conflicts with her Quaker background.

The meeting with Benjamin Franklin, who in this story is in his early fifties and living in London, is surprising. Although several historic facts are mentioned accurately, some of his statements do not coincide with reality. When he states, "Kick the French out of Canada and have the whole place to ourselves", this contradicts the fact that he was responsible for the development of positive relations between France and America. He was even admired by the French in his role as American Minister to Paris. Why the different portrayal? Perhaps the author wanted to highlight Mercy's aversion to the English and her desire to go back home to New York.

This short glimpse of the year 1759 in London presents the English view of the importance of the settlement of America as part of the expanding British empire, British judgements about other countries and the political situation of the time. It is not a favourable impression for Mercy or for me as a reader. The arrogance and prejudice against other cultures is reflected in the statement, "She had seen the heart of the empire and she did not like it".

Dec. 31, 2009 - Attention Means Attention by Charlotte Joko Beck

This article is from the book "Nothing Special - Living Zen" and is part of a volume of selections in the collection "Mountains are Mountains and Rivers are Rivers - Applying Eastern Techniques to Everyday Life" edited by Ilana Rabinowitz. I have a friend who practises Zen Buddhism and has loaned me this book to read as I am always trying to find peace in my hectic, over-extended daily life. I find myself turning to selections in this book when I need some time for reflection. It is soothing and inspirational at the same time. As is a visit to my friend when I need some advice or some "back to earth" grounding.

"Every moment in life is absolute in itself. There is nothing other than this present moment; there is no past; there is no future; there is nothing but this. So when we don't pay attention to each little thing, we miss the whole thing." For me, this is the most important quote in the article. How many moments do people miss focussed on past resentments or experiences or running around in circles trying to accomplish too many tasks at the same time? It is difficult to enjoy a beautiful sunset, a leisurely walk around the block, or a dinner with a friend when we are not paying attention to what is going on right in front of us.

Living in the present, "direct, experiential realization through meditation and dharma practice" (Wikipedia), is one of the main tenets of Zen Buddhism. Although I do believe that learning about our place in the history of the world, remembering past events and experiences with family members and friends, and thinking ahead to future plans and goals have their place, if we spend too much time in the past or future, new memories and experiences will not be enjoyed to their full extent.

My children both play the violin and I have been to numerous recitals and concerts to hear them play. Each time, I am so focussed on taking pictures and video of their performance, that I entirely miss the musical experience and enjoyment of the moment. Sure, I have the video to go back to, but it is not the same. Consider listening to a CD of a favourite performer or watching a music video. Is it the same as attending a live performance? The excitement and connection is not there - it can only be attained in the present moment, that is during the live performance.

How many times do we "multitask", trying to complete all the items on our self-imposed "to-do-list" and miss important moments with our children or family? Have you caught yourself telling your child, "not right now, I'm busy"? But, there is only one "right now" for them. If you miss too many of these opportunities, your child will become an adult before you know it and you will not have shared these meaningful experiences.

I am sure we can all find examples in our daily lives where we have missed attending to the present, the here and now, and realized its importance much later. A reminder of this goes a long way in inspiring me to watch out for these moments, to let go of the past, not worry about the future, and just enjoy the present. A great thought as I begin the new year, 2010!

Dec. 30, 2009 - New York by Edward Rutherfurd

Is it possible to tell a coherent, meaningful story that maintains the reader's interest throughout four centuries of history? Edward Rutherfurd accomplishes this daunting task yet again by tracing the descendants of some of the early settlers of New York (the van Dyck family, the Masters family and the family of Quash the slave), dropping them into the settlement of early Manhattan by the Indians and New Amsterdam by the Dutch. Spanning the English takeover, the War of Independence, the Civil War, the Great Depression,  the World Wars and even the events of 9/11, Rutherfurd entwines momentous events with the thoughts and actions of fictional characters as well as prominent historical figures.

The synopsis for the book New York reveals that Rutherfurd worked closely with historians to ensure the legitimacy of the background information for this novel. The ability to connect with historical events is one of the key reasons that I, as a reader, enjoy this genre so much. Learning about the world we live in and the events that shaped it, is not only educational but appealing as well. The fact that this is a fictional tale interspersed with a bit of history distinguishes it from the sometimes dry textbook or research format.

Coinciding with "The Big Apple's" 400th anniversary, New York is in line to become an epic novel alongside classics such as Roots, Gone With the Wind and War and Peace.