Tuesday, July 6, 2010

July 6, 2010 - The Time of My Life by Patrick Swayze and Lisa Niemi

I've always liked the actor Patrick Swayze and after reading his biography I understand why. I first saw him in the break-out movie The Outsiders, alongside the soon-to-be "Brat Pack" actors Ralph Macchio, Matt Dillon, C. Thomas Howell, Rob Lowe and Emilio Estevez, all of whom went on to have highly successful careers. I also enjoyed his performances in the civil war epic North and South and of course Dirty Dancing and Ghost.

His philosophy in life was to be the best at whatever he did and he worked hard to meet his goals. This was ingrained in him early in his life by his parents, especially his mother who was a choreographer and teacher at a dance studio in Texas. Patrick talks about "growing up Swayze - an almost manic drive to be the best, do the most, and lead the pack in whatever we attempted." He not only trained in dance but also gymnastics and rose to be one of the best in both those fields. However, a knee injury on the football field, impacted his choice of career. Not only could he not play football anymore, a sport that he equally excelled in, he struggled to have a professional dance career as well.

He met his wife, Lisa Niemi, early in life and they were married in 1975. Hollywood romances are often difficult and rarely last long. This was not the case for these soul mates who remained together until Patrick's death in 2009. Although, like any marriage, there were difficult times, they weathered these together. It was fun to read about their early days as struggling dancers and actors in New York trying to make ends meet and crack into the business. For those who think an acting career doesn't require hard work and long hours, reading about these early days dispels those myths. From taking on woodworking projects together, to dancing together, to raising and showing horses, to learning how to fly a plane, Lisa and Patrick had much in common. This was the strength behind their relationship. Often seen on set with her husband, Lisa was his greatest supporter and was always behind his success.

I am glad that Patrick Swayze had a chance to write this memoir before his death so that readers can learn first-hand about the incredible life and character of a fine actor.

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